Life Lessons

Don’t Count People Out, When God Counted You In

When you make a lifestyle change and decide to start eating clean, you refrain from putting bad food into your body. As you get closer to God, you realize some things and people just don’t suit you anymore. Thus, you begin to detoxify your circle and weed out all negative energy. It’s practically normal and necessary. However, don’t become a person who’s too holy to hold hands with a sinner, now that you’re delivered.

When walking in step with the Lord, you should discover your role in ministry. I don’t mean joining a church ministry. Ministry is simply your gift or contribution of service. Some people are prayer warriors. Some people send out daily prayers or spiritual messages. Some people bring people together in fellowship. Some people are good listeners or give good advice. Some people know how to point you to the right scripture or even quote one to fit your situation. Depending on your role in ministry, the person you’re counting out might need you.

Usually when sinners see that you’ve grown closer to God, for it should show in your walk and talk, they’ll either walk with you or away from you. If they choose to walk in your faith, let them – don’t leave them. But if they choose to walk away, let them and understand that it may be best. At least that person was responsible and respectful enough to help you keep your covenant with God, by not being a bad influence. Don’t take it personal when it’s purposeful.

“Your walk with God should bring healing and love. Your obedience to Him will secure your place above.”

-Bianca A. McCormicks-Johnson ✍🏽

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I am Black History

I am a poet like Maya,

The Truth like Sojourner,

Outspoken like Malcom,

And a pretty faster learner.

Courageous like Harriet,

Powerful like MLK,

I’m spiritual like him too,

Behind my God, I don’t play.

I read because they told me I couldn’t.

I write because they told me I wouldn’t.

I grind because nothing is given.

I do what people say that I shouldn’t.

I don’t copy, I create.

I don’t conform, I debate.

I learn from my mistakes because ignorance doesn’t make you great.

I’m a builder, a believer, an overachiever, a successful Black woman, my own cheerleader.

I’m bold, I’m brave, I’m humble, I’m saved.

I chase purpose and dreams because I’m already paid.

I’m my own brand. I’ve got my own man. When I’m not having fun, I’m executing my master plan.

I’m not Black by choice,

But I’m proud on purpose.

My ancestors paved the way,

And Imma show ‘em it was worth it.

Do It For Yourself

Whatever it is you’re doing in life, make sure you’re doing it for yourself. It’s okay to secure a bag, but it’s best to secure your own happiness first. I believe most people would live simple lives if they weren’t comparing themselves to others or trying to meet some societal standard. Many say they don’t care what others think, but their lifestyle says otherwise.

In my 46 years of living, I’ve observed how people in rural areas live versus people in urban and suburban areas. It seems like people who live in the country (rural areas) prioritize peace over worldly possessions. They may look like they don’t have much by the way they dress, but they usually own acres of land. Now, you tell me which is worth more? I also find them to be some of the happiest, kindest, and content people in the United States.

They are also healthier because they eat more fresh foods from their own gardens and local markets. One of my kin folks in Mississippi recently celebrated her 99th birthday. Nevertheless, she’s not the only kin of mine in her 90s. I wouldn’t say all of them are very healthy, but they are still here. When I talk to these folks, they don’t seem to worry and stress as much as us city folks do, which is a huge contributor to health. They don’t value material things and aesthetics so much either. Most city folks invest more in vanity than their own sanity. Some of us will even risk our own lives for the perfect look.

So, take a look at your life and ask yourself, am I doing this for me? Anyone who desires everlasting joy and peace will not let anything or anyone compromise it. Therefore, if anything or anyone is jeopardizing your peace, let it go. If beauty is making you go broke, learn to love your natural self. If you’re constantly spending money you don’t have to attend every event or travel frequently, learn to live within your limits and explore less costly hobbies. Whether you’re in Mexico or Maine, they’re going to like your post anyway. If that big house and luxury car are breaking the bank, downsize. They’re going to talk about you either way. But I’d rather downsize my assets and upsize my peace any day.

“I don’t need to have everything, but I have everything I need. Pleasing others is just too hard, so I live within my means.”

-Bianca A. McCormicks-Johnson ✍🏽

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I’m Still G.O.O.D. – Volume Two

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