Whatever it is you’re doing in life, make sure you’re doing it for yourself. It’s okay to secure a bag, but it’s best to secure your own happiness first. I believe most people would live simple lives if they weren’t comparing themselves to others or trying to meet some societal standard. Many say they don’t care what others think, but their lifestyle says otherwise.
In my 46 years of living, I’ve observed how people in rural areas live versus people in urban and suburban areas. It seems like people who live in the country (rural areas) prioritize peace over worldly possessions. They may look like they don’t have much by the way they dress, but they usually own acres of land. Now, you tell me which is worth more? I also find them to be some of the happiest, kindest, and content people in the United States.
They are also healthier because they eat more fresh foods from their own gardens and local markets. One of my kin folks in Mississippi recently celebrated her 99th birthday. Nevertheless, she’s not the only kin of mine in her 90s. I wouldn’t say all of them are very healthy, but they are still here. When I talk to these folks, they don’t seem to worry and stress as much as us city folks do, which is a huge contributor to health. They don’t value material things and aesthetics so much either. Most city folks invest more in vanity than their own sanity. Some of us will even risk our own lives for the perfect look.
So, take a look at your life and ask yourself, am I doing this for me? Anyone who desires everlasting joy and peace will not let anything or anyone compromise it. Therefore, if anything or anyone is jeopardizing your peace, let it go. If beauty is making you go broke, learn to love your natural self. If you’re constantly spending money you don’t have to attend every event or travel frequently, learn to live within your limits and explore less costly hobbies. Whether you’re in Mexico or Maine, they’re going to like your post anyway. If that big house and luxury car are breaking the bank, downsize. They’re going to talk about you either way. But I’d rather downsize my assets and upsize my peace any day.
“I don’t need to have everything, but I have everything I need. Pleasing others is just too hard, so I live within my means.”
-Bianca A. McCormicks-Johnson ✍🏽
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This topic reminds me of the scripture Philippians 4:11 where it says to be content in all situations whatsoever the circumstances are. That’s one of my favorite scriptures. This is like a well written elaboration of that scripture. More people would be happier if they chose to live by that. Amen. 🙏🏾
Yes, I agree!